Christian, Broken, and Dating is my raw and honest story of how the beliefs I carried led me into relationships that hurt me—and distanced me from God. In this series, I share the painful truths I had to face, the last relationship that forced everything to a breaking point, and the ugly lies I realized I had believed about love, worth, and myself.
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Daily practices to live in alignment with your destiny.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.
The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.
God Has Not Forgotten You
Maybe you've been settling. Settling for love that feels halfhearted, for relationships that drain instead of build, for a life that feels like going through the motions. Maybe disappointment has dulled your faith and left you weary, wondering if God has overlooked you.
But hear this: God has not forgotten you.
The story of your life isn't finished yet. Where you are right now is not the final chapter. That ache in your heart for more—for love that is true, for work that fulfills, for a life that feels alive—isn't there by accident. It's a holy reminder that you were made for more than just surviving.
God greater plan...
God has a greater plan than what you've been settling for. A love that reflects His heart. A calling that excites your soul. A future that is richer, fuller, and freer than what you've known.
Release it...
So don't be afraid to let go of what is less than God's best.
Don't be afraid to release what has kept you stuck, broken, or
small.
What you lose in settling cannot compare to what you will gain in
trusting.
Lift your head. Believe again. Dream again. Hope again. Your delays are not denials. Your pain is not permanent. And your present is not your final outcome.
Hold on—because the God who called you is faithful, and His promise is still on the way.
“God will never send someone who requires you to let go of His hand to hold theirs.”
— Shelomith
“The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”
— Frederick Buechner
“I’ve learned to never abandon myself just to gain the company of someone else.”
— Shelomith
“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.”
— Martin Luther King Jr